LESSONS LEARNED FROM THE WILDFLOWERS-LESSON 2 "The Path"

It really is amazing to me what lessons we can learn from God's handiwork! The second lesson that I learned from the wildflowers was-What Path Am I Leading My Children Down? Am I being the Christian example that I need to be?
The path that we walk down is dirt, surrounded mostly by woods and partly fields. My greatest fears are snakes, ticks, and, yes, bears, so we tell the boys time and time again to stay on the path. DO NOT go into the grass or the woods.
Now, keeping that admonishment in mind, where do wildflowers grow? On the path? No, of course not. They grow on the edge, IN THE GRASS. When I saw those flowers, I thought that if I only went quickly, grabbed some, then came back, I would be fine. My boys kept saying, "But, Mommy, you said not to go into the grass!". I said, "I'll be just a second. I'll be alright." No harm done. Right? WRONG!
The next day, I felt something itchy, only to find that it was a tick on me. Did anyone else in my little walking party have one? No. Just me. Why? Because I left the path and went where I shouldn't have, where we told the boys not to go.
That really got me to thinking. Thinking about how we are trying to teach our boys about the Lord and living the Christian life. While out on our walk, I told the boys one thing, then I went and did exactly what I had just told them not to do. What kind of example is that?
Our children are watching us much more closely than we know. We need to make sure that we practice what we teach. For example, if we teach our children not to lie, then they see us call out from work "sick", when we really aren't and just wanted a day off , what did that just show them?
Another thing that we try to teach our children is not to steal, but Dad comes home from work with items (yes, even those pens, post-it note pads, etc) that he has taken home with him, because "the workplace has so many, they won't miss it!".
Oh, Christian, be careful! Stay on the path! Be that Christian example to your children that you are trying to instill in them! We are so human. We will all fall at one time or another, but when we do, honestly and heartfully ask the Lord's forgiveness. Pray that He will help you.
This also gave me an opportunity to talk to my boys about consequences to our actions. Since I did not heed the rule and went where I wanted to anyway, I got bit by a tick, which, by the way, could be very serious if it is carrying Lyme disease. I told the boys that there are always reasons for the rules that we set for them. Even though they can't see it now (did we when we were their age?),  we set some of those rules for their protection. The Bible has rules on how we should live. Some of them seem very hard, but, once again, God had His reasons for setting them.
I feel that God has brought this lesson to me to open my eyes a little bit wider about the awsome responsibility of raising my children. I hope it has helped you as well.
Have a wonderful and blessed day!
Beth :-)

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY

Happy Father's Day to all of you fathers out there!
I just have to say that the Lord has blessed me tremendously with such a wonderful husband. He is an awsome daddy to our two boys.
As the pastor of our church, my husband is often called away for different things dealing with the church or it's members, which sometimes disrupts our personal family time. This is to be expected, of course. We love our church and this is what we are here for. But often a preacher can get so caught up with the church that his family gets pushed to the side.
My husband makes it a point to spend special time with our boys each day, even if it's a quick basketball game on the driveway, working together in the garage on some project, even working in our small garden. Family devotions are also a priority. This is a very important time of day. We read scripture, talk and pray together. We do this at night and it actually helps to wind down the day. He then also makes sure that he helps tuck them in at night.
Is my husband the perfect father? Of course not! We are all human and we make mistakes. But as long as we keep the Lord at the head of everything we do as a family, keep hemming everything in prayer, things will work out, not in our time, but in His.
I pray that if you are a father, that you will remember to take time with your children, play with them, pray with them! They are small today, but tomorrow they will be grown and gone. It happens that fast, it seems!
Again, Happy Father's Day! I hope it is wonderful and blessed!
Beth :-)

LESSONS LEARNED FROM THE WILDFLOWERS-LESSON 1 "Looking to Jesus"

The other day, while taking our family walk, I picked some pretty wildflowers for my kitchen windowsill.
 I know, I know!  I am always taking pictures of flowers on my windowsill, but that is my most favorite place of my kitchen. When we found out I was expecting our second child, we had to rearrange some of the rooms in our house to accommodate our new little blessing.  My husband knew that the one thing that I absolutely wanted was a kitchen window that looked out on our backyard. The original kitchen in our house looked out into the next room. It had absolutely NO windows looking on the outside.
Well, these wildflowers have taught me a few lessons. The next few posts will be about my "Lessons Learned from the Wildflowers".
LESSON 1:
When we got home from our walk, I promptly put the flowers in a vase, nicely arranging them as best as I could. I thought they looked so "country" and pretty. See below picture.

I got up the next morning, and the flowers were actually leaning towards the other side. I thought that someone had turned the vase. I promptly turned them back so that they looked again as the above pictures.
This same thing happened by the end of the day.
Of course, I asked my boys which one was messing with the vase, and both denied any touching. I then took a closer look at the flowers. This is what I saw:

If you'll look closely, some of the flowers have actually turned towards the window. To be exact, they have turned towards the SUN. That is why they kept leaning in another direction.
I thought about my Christian walk. Am I trying my hardest to lean towards the SON, God's Son, Jesus? Whatever my circumstances, am I looking towards Jesus, no matter what happens?
These flowers reminded me to make more effort to keep my personal and family devotion times, to spend more time in prayer, to try to listen more closely to what the Lord is trying to tell me, to hold on to Jesus and know that He knows everything that is going on and won't let me go.
When my boys were little babies, no matter who was in the room, they were always craning their necks to find me. All they had to do was hear my voice, and they started looking.
We should be like that with Jesus. No matter who or what is around us, we should always be looking to Jesus. If we keep Him at the head of our lives, we won't go wrong! Hallelujah!
Have a wonderful and blessed day!
Beth :-)

VACATION TIME

Well, vacation has come and gone! Isn't that always the way it is? It takes so long to get here, then time flies by!
The Lord blessed us with a WONDERFUL vacation. I praise Him for the beautiful mountain weather and for our safety. But, you know, no matter how great vacation time is, there's no place like home for my family. We are always glad to come back!
We went to the Boone, NC area, where we visited Grandfather Mountain, Tweetsie Railroad (Thomas the Tank Engine was there), hiked, swam, and just had some good family time. On Sunday, the Lord led us to a small church called Willowdale Baptist Church. The morning and evening sermons were spirit-filled and uplifting. We prayed very hard that He would send us to the right church, and He definitely did!
The best surprise for me was on Monday while we were at Tweetsie Railroad. All that long way from home, we ran into a family from our church. Imagine that! My husband and I joked with them that it's a good thing we were all doing and acting the way we should, as Christians.
It's a sad fact, and not really a joking matter, that some Christians, when they go on vacation, often try to take a vacation from God, going to places and doing things that they wouldn't normally do, because they think that no one knows them. But, Christian, let me tell you, not only do you never know who you will run into, but GOD KNOWS! He is still there with you, watching. He sees everything that you do. If you claim to be a Christian, then BE ONE, no matter where you are or what you are doing.
Well, I'm off to start my day. I hope you have a wonderful and blessed day!
Beth :-)

On top of Grandfather Mountain